I read the "5 love languages" and I know my language is verbal. I am assuming my W is the same.
Why do you assume your wife speaks the same LL as you? It seems to me that it would be something useful to find out for sure.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement