The thing that is so screwed up with all of this is that if I do show "tough love" and made some kind of a threat like I'll throw her laptop outside, she would just tell me to grow up.
I'm not talking about "threats", (and my H wasn't threatening, he meant it). There has to be lines (boundaries) in a R so that there is respect. Did you read the tread on boundaries?
I get back in a few.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
