SR, it's time to stop caretaking her. She's a big girl and it's her job to ask you for money or help paying the bills if she needs it. I know you're worried that she's pushing for D because of financial issues, but I don't think you can fix this by making things more financially comfortable for her right now.
Sounds like the dinner went well.
(((SR)))
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.