Doesn't matter if your weak or not, sometimes WAW is just attracted to anything thats not you
If you were talking to "me", then you are preaching to the choir! I disagree with that first part, b/c it "does" matter if the LBH is strong or weak. If she sees him as a weak sister, then she will eat him alive....knowing that she can get away with it. He'll do nothing. The more passive he is, the more she is going to disrespect him. The more she disrespects him, the less attracted she will be. That is the only way I could agree with the last part of what you said. She is attracted to anything that's not him. She is so turned off by him that she usually finds a man who is entirely opposite from him.
I think it is good for you two LBH's to show support each other,but both of you are playing in this pity party too long. Time to shut it down and do something else.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
