I would suggest you watch the pursuing behavior as well as the availability.

As for the LM, my honest opinion is that it's not necessarily a good thing. In fact, there's a significant possibility that it's a big red flag. When a WAS goes from "I'm not in love with you" to sexual intimacy, chances are the real drive behind that behavior is not something that will fill your heart with joy.

Last edited by Deep; 04/15/10 04:45 PM.
Me 42
W 39
Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992
First Bomb: Sep 2007
Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007
Kids: D10, S5
Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak.
3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.