OK, I am coming in late in the discussion here... But I really question the IC stating to ask the hubby outright about the relationship... Seems like the wrong thing to do, IMHO. Not that I am countering an expert. Just from my experience- any time I had any sort of R talks with hubby we seemed to take a step backwards towards reconciliation. It just was an abysmal failure.
Last edited by june72; 04/15/1004:38 PM.
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
