SCH - that "NOW WHAT" you will ultimately have answer for yourself.

I see glimpses of rationality, but there is lot's of MLC behavior still showing...So this week he want's to become a writer...last week he wanted to move to France...what will it be next week? He is still trying to find himself.

If you decide to reconcile, you may want to think about a contract. Where you spell out financial responsibilities, and future obligations to each other in case things don't work out. I'm not a lawyer, but I think that would address some of your concerns.


M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO