I think it is pretty obvious that I am focusing on the ow and my h....not myself. Obviously something I need to work on. Just need to work on myself and talk with a db coach. Hopefully soon. I just really think the more I go dark then my b thinks I don't care so why shouldn't he file for d?


M 35, husband 35
M 10
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