Trust me, I will not settle for less than a "good one"...
unless he is super hottt and doesn't mind me using him for my own enjoyment.... A girl can have a dream...
BobbiJo - Whats a "good one" to you, describe qualities and physical.
Whats a "super hott" one? Is this a physically attractive guy, that you maybe couldn't stand to be around all the time, but wouldn't have a problem spending a couple of hours with?
The super hottt one is easy...half the cast of the Starz TV show Spartacus.... If a handsome (face too!), well muscled guy wanted to make out and play with me for an evening I would not be opposed! If he was also fun to hang out with and had a personality, all the better...
As for a good one...
Features:nice teeth, eyes that convey feeling, in pretty good physical shape. I do not expect a Spartacus body double because I am not one myself....just someone who takes care of himself, well groomed, not a ball of flab.
That guy there is precisely the type I am attracted to...have had a crush on him for about 19 years now... Ever since Homefront was on tv...love the eyes and the smile. Had a short-term fling (no sex tho) with a guy in college cause he had the same smile...
Personality:I absolutely love intelligence and wit, they are #1 for me. I think I came out of the womb sarcastic, I suppressed it for some reason until my senior year of high school. As an adult I am always the one making witty observations and making everybody laugh. That's why I couldn't have an actual Relationship with a sexy but stupid guy. If I cannot laugh with you and engage in verbal sparring, then I will lose interest.
This sometimes conflicts with my other requirement. I want a man who is a man. That means do what you say you will do, honor your word, be responsible. Not that those funny guys can't be responsible, it just seems like some of the super reliable guys in my real life are not much 'fun'...I like to receive flowers on occasion but I like it even more if a man notices an interest of mine instead. Like bringing me a starbucks when he stops by, or downloading a song for me that he thinks I would like running to, or picking up a book he thinks I'd like....
A girl can have a dream... 
