Spouse Suffering From Depression

[awest1217]

Well, it sounds like things are more on the up and up instead of going down. However what does he mean by I like you, but I don't like you? Did he elaborate on that more or is it like the I love you but I am not in love with you line?

I think you do need to talk and really let him start by asking what he would like to see in this R and what steps (being solution oriented) can be taken to get there. Then it can be your turn or maybe a lot of his stuff will coincide with yours. The biggest thing is he is mad that you don't text him much, but he isn't texting you. Everything is a two way street so he needs to accept his end of the problem as well. Don't blame him or accuse him, but say actions you would like to see happen as well. If he says you should text him more, then you can say I will, but can you make sure that you always respond to my texts because I text you and never get a response.

Just think about what you want to say and the boundaries you want to set. I don't think it is ok to say one minute I don't like you and then try to make out.