Agree with Gno in principle; however, I've had this experience before and it's worth just noticing that there is a male you met who doesn't spew hate and meanness at you- you do not have to put up with that from someone who "loves" you. Sometimes a small wakeup of seeing other possibilities, that there are some nice people (men) out there in the world- without acting on them- is just food for thought, you know?
(((Hope)))
When the men on the chessboard Get up and tell you where to go; And you've just had some kind of mushroom And your mind is moving slow; Go ask Alice... I think she'll know.