Trusting, So how are things, really?

I wouldn't ascribe any motivation to it other than curiosity. But the question is whether to reply. Will you?

Ex's family cut me out of the picture very quickly and as far as I am concerned, I am dark with them as well.

M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D