Spouse Suffering From Depression

[Lucky11too]

So another interesting night. H text me about a few things yesterday - his car broke down, etc. Then when I go to pick up S, he texts me to wait there until he gets there if I get there before he does. (so much for waiting until this weekend. I wasn't sure I was really prepared to see him yet) So I end up getting there about 5 mins before he arrives. I'm trying to figure out what's up with him b/c it seems kind of bizarre that he wants to see me after all the drama we've been thru this past week. When he gets there, he's all happy to see me. When S runs away to go play with his cousin, we just sit there talking for a minute. He looks at me and tells me how he likes me but he doesn't like me. Wow, way to win a woman's heart. Then he tries to flirt with me and even makeout with me like everything is perfect. I was so not having it and was pretty cold. He was shocked that I wouldn't kiss him. He then said some other things about how I don't call or text him anymore, and me, just having to throw it out there b/c he's acting so naive about the whole situation, "well, that's b/c you can't count on me". That pissed off H, and then he's just like, "I'm done with this, I'm leaving." I didn't want to piss him off b/c I did appreciate that he was trying to make the effort, but on the other hand, we have issues that just can't be ignored. So, I don't know if I handled it right or not, but H needs to learn that he can't say mean things to me and then just go on like they never happened. That was hurtful and I have a right to be mad. He just doesn't get it though. I'm thinking of texting to tell him again why I am hurt and let him know that if that is the way he truely feels, then there's no point in disscussing us anymore, otherwise we need to take the time and talk about these issues. Thoughts?

Oh, and before the final blowup, I mentioned that I didn't want any secrets anymore and I wanted to be able to go to his place and his answer was "I was thinking about that. Soon". If we can get pass the above, I look forward to more openess.