I did exactly what Gucci is talking about. I told my wife "fine, you want a divorce, we'll get a divorce. I don't agree with it but I can't stop it. I hope we can remain friends."
She said of course we could remain friends.
Then I didn't talk to her for about 3 weeks.
Now her and I are at least back to the point of chatting again. No R talk. No emotions, just chit chatting and joking around.
And now she wants me to take her to the zoo on her birthday.
I don't really know if thats a good idea... But I'm gonna roll with it.
