Oh, good suggestion--do The Work on "I need his forgiveness." Because--light of dawn here--I NEED TO FORGIVE ME!!! wow, and I spared myself a whole hour of Work there.

I don't know HOW to forgive me, but clearly that's the thing.

Yeah, pretty fricking unbelievable that he would call me to task on HONOR for moving his stuff. I refrained from replying "I treated your stuff with more respect than you did me, or the end of our R."

Well, I sent the 'it's all my fault' note--and who cares? I'm saying what I want to say FOR ME. He can read it or not.

Thanks, Flowmom.

The half marathon was pretty amazing. And another next week!

Thanks so much for posting on everyone's thread, FM. I'm just concerned that you don't burn yourself out taking on so much of others' grief. Take care of yourself first.