"....You're right. I am ignoring you. You're right. This isn't working. You were more right than I knew TWO years ago. This is NOT working between us anymore. BackOFF, you've had two years to initiate discussion. I need to be alone. Your clothes are in there because that is YOUR room now. I thought I made it clear I wanted some time alone.
It's about time you did this, I'm glad you did, it shows you're not dumb, it shows you won't put up with bull$hit anymore, it shows you value yourself enough to let go of the people that don't value you or the relationship they have with you.
You've worked so hard and tried so hard at your end of this relationship and all that communicated to your H is that he could continue doing his crap routine without having to change, "heck she's working this hard to save this marriage, I might as well continue doing what I'm doing, I like all this attention" and then.... you finally hit that point, the switch finally got flipped, you reached your threshold point and finally realized that this isn't working and it's time to stop working at this and let him be and let him deal with the consequences of his actions.
- you're a strong lady and I'm damn proud to know you!
