Need a Plan for My Marriage

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Thanks DaddyLongShanks,

I feel that what you are saying is my case. There probably is truth in what Sandie2 said about my wife's perception of me justified or not. I am not that person that I was before or during initial stages of the affair. I still need to work on me and take care of myself. I am growing stronger and better everyday. It is different for all of us and how long this process takes. I still want to hear from everyone because it gives me different perspectives that I need.

I want to DB the best I am able to.

Thanks again!!!