That article is pretty interesting. I can't tell if I relate more to the W or H in that story, because I'm the one who wants to leave, but I feel like it's because he has pushed me away too much.
I don't know if anyone else has this experience, but I am so angry when I wake up in the morning. It's like I was fine when I was asleep, but upon awaking I realize how much crap I have to put up with and I end up having a temper tantrum before I even get out of bed (though I keep it inside, so not to take it out on sleeping beauty laying next to me).
I end up going to work mad, slamming the door on the way out, in hopes my H will wake up before noon. I have even stopped giving him goodbye kisses, because I don't think he appreciates them.
I'm having trouble with the "lovingly distant" part of GAL. It usually feels like I'm being spitefully distant. I feel like he doesn't even deserve to see me walk through the room, most definitely doesn't deserve to see me smile.
When I first started GAL I was more lovingly distant. But once I stopped initiating affection, I learned within a few weeks all I get is about one hug and one "grandma" kiss on the lips per day.
And on top of that, he does nothing, ever, besides go to work. He will not leave the house, never goes out with his friends, just sits on the couch all day. He is boring me.
He used to play music and talk to me about science and the universe and philosophy. Now he barely says anything.
I am in a relationship with a brick wall and I'm falling out of love.
