I was thinking in your case, there might be special considerations for your son that the IC could be knowledgeable about- oops poorly worded! And then your L could use her "expert" opinion in fighting his L. EX: if your S needs a consistent schedule for coming and going between your places instead of every 8th day except for the third week etc (whatever it is now.)
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004