W still wants separation, need to DB more

[OfficerInNeed]

Yeah I learned quick that my W no longer likes my sense of humor as she did in the past.

I read the "5 love languages" and I know my language is verbal. I am assuming my W is the same. We were always intimate couple so touch is not it. She told me when our sitch began she did not want gifts and she also told me that me doing things does not make a difference that she is "very well capable of doing them myself" mostly what lacked in our R was positive verbal communication, there was some but I was always critical and harsh .

So if I can fill her tank verbally without punching holes in the same tank with critical words, hopefully she will start to turn around.