gman, OfficerInNeed, and AllanA all made major inroads into restoration by busting the affair first.
nicole - been watching your situation from a far....not much input but i will say one of the biggest factors in busting up my W A was the simple fact we were still living together, and i never gave up my marital bed after the ILYBNILWY crap she spewed....so obvioulsy ech situation has different elements and factors.
sorry not much help but you got my support
Gman
Last edited by gman; 04/15/1003:11 PM.
M-37 W-36 S-11, S-9, D-4 PA exposed 3/13/10 10/19/10 moving on... most up to date sit