As someone with a psychology background, I would say this IC hit the nail on the head. I would encourage you to work with her on your deeper issues. She was able to see so many patterns quickly in a deep way for you and your past. I'd keep her for you
Interesting.
I guess part of what I'm not clear on is what's involved in developing a coparenting plan. I know that lawyers can do it for example. So I'm not totally clear on how much psychological input is involved. OTOH, the autism diagnosis is new for us...it's a whole new perspective on what is needed to meet S6's needs. Under normal circumstances I would be voraciously reading and seeking input from other parents to come up to speed on all of the (that's kind of my specialty). But I haven't really been doing that yet. I do welcome outside input. The IC emphasized how damaging it's been for H and I to be toughing it out with S6 for so many years.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
