Originally Posted By: M from Tennessee
BBJ...

so why not ask R about last night?? I mean why not say.."hey, I thought we were going out tonight?"

also..what makes you think that he is only seeing you?? or not talking to other people?..

maybe he has a good excuse for not following through..

maybe you should ask more questions...maybe you should even ASK HIM OUT AND MAKE THE PLANS.. wink

I think his flirty texts may be a "testing the waters" type thing..

then again..He could be gay.. grin


Mike,

The direct approach is the one I was thinking last night. Just say, "Hey what's up? Maybe I had wires crossed but I thought we were going out"...since no time or place was given it was pretty well up in the air but still! I am tired of game-playing and mind reading and all that jazz

As for whether he is seeing or talking to anyone else, I have no idea, I never said he wasn't....

I don't really care at this point if he is because we are so early in the dating process...I am still chatting with other people and if I find someoene BBJ worthy I will not hesitate to go on a date with more than one other guy... smile


Me-35

Together: 18 yrs
M-12.5 yrs
S-8
D-4
D'd: Feb. 2010

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