Yeah drink alot of water, your wifes social and family environment IS THE DEVIL, at least for you it is. So if she's taking her "drinks" from them and listening, you will always be in turmoil - and it ain't helping either of your health.
I now those bible verses, but when you are dealing with "bad" they don't work. "Bad" will take advantage of the biblical people every time up to a point.
That point is, god doesn't want us to be a fool behind the wicked. Theres verses on that, and I believe Serenity showed them. We should not be a all-suffering martyr behind anyone, thats what Jesus job was.
If Jesus came down today, man would kill him again.
If your wife truly asked for forgiveness and is blessing you with remorse in her actions, attitude, demeanor and viewpoint - and is keeping her friends and family at a distance, I would say your at a better point than the rest of us.
If she's still listening to them, you will always be in hell. I know the environment you speak of all too well.
