ok.. you have to shut Dan down on the whining to you about the kids. You are going to have to flat out tell him to stop texting you about everything unless it involves blood. You don't need to know.
On the R front, pfft on him. Get out our manual He's just not that into you.... ( because he's a dumba$$) Seriously, he must socially stunted... can say it in a text but can't do anything in person. You don't want to be with someone who is emotionally reserved, shy, whatever... he has issues.
Give 'em the BJ boot! Your to busy, his loss. I am glad you didn't text him. Go read the book again and anytime a dude fits that description Bye-Bye
Get on match, go on more dates, so what if they suck in the beginning... you'll get out and about.... you don't have to kiss them. Just explore the venue.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
