Down The Divorce Road

[markhaving probs]

I received a text from my stbxw and I would like some views on what she said.

To fill in the gaps I removed pictures of the children from the house as she had removed OUR ipod and expensive speakers which were a present from her parents for our wedding anniversary.

I know it seems childish, but if I had not removed the pictures, she would have done and I would never see them again.

To paraphrase her text alittle it started with her threatening me with the police and solicitor, though I know they would not get involved.

The interesting bit to me was she then says I am unreasonable and this is one of the reasons she divorced me (not the fact she was having a PA). She goes on..."you signed the D papers on the grounds of 'unreasonable behaviour', well you are doing exactly that..being unreasonable...you said you will regret what you did for the rest of your life..how you ruined our marriage..this proves you are still extremeny unreasonable"

Is this her trying to justify her reasons for D, or is she angry at herself?

Secondly, she has asked me to return her picture frames but I can have the pictures. what should I do to not look as though I have backed down, I will not respond to her text as I never do which makes her even madder. I don't want to return the pictures at all, even if I did she would still have nil respect for me.