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But he controlled ME through fear - fear of his reaction, fear of his rejection, etc.


How much of that fear might have been assumed by you though? How much of it imagined?

I have learned that I often thought my H was in a bad mood, or wanted me to act a certain way, when actually that wasn't the situation at all.....I just thought it was.


Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength