Ah, thank you! I have a friend who let his girlfriend move in while she looked for a new place to stay and, guess what, she's still there and he says he wants her out but she never seems to leave and it's been two years! Yet, if he REALLY wanted her out, she'd be out...who's he kidding! Wow, tough stuff Mishka. People always say they can't fathom how I stay sane in my unusual R I have with my STBX but I'm thinking that about you and your sitch right now. Seeing him every day and having to deal with all the emotional turmoil which it must bring up...whew, I bow down to you!