Yay! I thought he might have been feeling these things, since my WH is.
I really think your WAH could have an adjustment disorder! I do think space is what he needs so that he can deal with the adjustment on his own and not have lingering thoughts that you "made" him do it. He definitely needs family right now to talk to, so it's good if his family is listening to him.
"all over the shop"-- must be an Aussie expression, ha ha!
I would wait for the catch up until after the baby. If he is so terrified of fatherhood, he needs to go through that first before he can think of you clearly. Unless he initiates a metting, of course. IMO.
Keep GALing! A bit of hope is restored, but continue to hold out!
Oh, one last thing. I definitely try not to get my hopes up too much, but I take comfort that he is not "having a ball." So revel in that without guilt.
me, 30 WH, 29 D born June 2010 M: July 2001 Bomb/S: 1/14/10 Done with it all.
