Why do I have the intuition he still is undecided even though he says he is done?
Because you cannot believe anything they say...it is their actions!!! Same as they will not "listen" to us but they do responds to our "actions".
I think you are a lot like me! I can be sucked into having a conversation so fast! I have talked way too much throughout my sitch and am going to stop! A stupid ex. H asked me "who I got to till the garden" instead of saying "I didn't "get" anyone to do it...it was done when I got home" and leave it at that I said that I didn't ask anyone to do it that our neighbor came over and did it as he wants to make sure he gets his peppers for his salsa this year"
You are sounding better! If there are things (besides your H) that you are wanting out of life, it is time to go get them!!!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
