I can tell you that aftef discussing the Are I noticed a definite change and her mood. I should have stayed away from that as advised here but it just happened. I'm working on being the husband I should be and sent flowers today for no occasion like I used to do. It's time to rock her world, forever. The MC was I'll so I haven't heard from her yet. I almost wonder is that is a good thing as now I have a few days to really concentrate on healing and doing a 180. I'm still keeping my eyes open for indications of some type of A and will seek advice here. Thanks very much!