Last weekend my husband disappeared again. When he came home this past weekend he had a different suitcase, similar in color and size but not his. I didn't say anything about it, I wonder if he thinks I didn't notice. I admit I snooped through it while he was in the shower and found a 'Happy Anniversary" card from the OW to him. OUCH! I know I shouldn't have snooped because it only hurt me, but it also made me very angry. Who is this woman to give cards and talk about how she is going to try to make him happy every day 'when they can finally be together." Blech! I too tried to make him happy and he had a MLC regardless. Anyway, I wondered if this 'anniversary' would bring any changes. So far it has not, he seemed pretty much the same as usual and has not brought up or talked about the D again. I wonder if perhaps this is putting pressure on him from her side and might cause him to draw back a little.
It makes me wonder what can be appealing about a woman who dumps her husband and then just sits waiting for mine to show up every other weekend or so. Can't she see he spends most of his time with me? I guess I see it that he is using her as a bandaid for his MLC, I wonder how she sees it.
Me - 38 Husband - 40 MLC! Together 12 years Married 11 years Still the love of my life Forever only lasted 10 years before his MLC and affair
