W still wants separation, need to DB more

[OfficerInNeed]

There are not sleeping arrangements established. We had a few backslides a couple weeks in a row so a few time she would sleep in the spare room to prove a point. I have slept in the spare room to give her space and not make her feel uncomfortable.

Quick Story:
A few weeks back I buy a new bed set for the master bedroom. The old bed set goes into the spare room. Before then there was no spare room. My W tells me "Good now I have my room and you have yours" Then 5 min later she is dressing her pillow with the new bedding for the new bed set. I made a joke "That pillow case is not going to go with the old bedding" she got upset and threw the pillow case at me and walked out the room. She then setup the old bed set in the other room and claimed it as "her room" She slept in there for couple days then moved to the master bedroom on a night I had work. Since then she has slept in the master bedroom. I have only slept n the same bed as her once since then. I have slept in the spare bedroom myself on nights we are both home. I will try tonight....after all it is my bed.

FYI we still live together just in case that was not clear.