I was more gucci style with my H if I get gucci right. Told him, "let's divorce now, things are calm between us, I agree with you, we were not meant to be together, we made a mistake but we can be friends and should be because of the kids..."
He agreed, looking sad. I didnt give him his version of "friends". I kept surprising him doing things I always wanted to do with him, he hated that. He had a hard time accepting friends meant he had less impact on my life than my bgf did for example. K
