It just doesn't make any sense to me to "fight for your marriage" is ok, but on the other hand you won't be friends.
In my experience people have it backwards..
We should be saying.. "I don't want to be married to you and won't be your spouse" if you are choosing someone else, WAY before "I won't be your friend."
And yet people will allow the wayward to live with them while having an affair, will keep trying to save the relationship while an affair is going on, and yet we are discussing "not being their friend" as some big strong move??.. (while we try to win them back as a spouse???)
I disagree. I believe it works better to get tough on "not being their spouse before we should be talking about not being their friend.
