Sorry about the non date sis... Patience is again important ( )
Regarding the slut thing... LOL!!! I am a person guided by my emotions and impulses, always being responsible though. It's a fine balance but I think I've done well in my life. I have very few regrets and about things I couldnt have changed anyway. Most importantly, I dont have any regrets about things I didnt do. There is/was one phrase my mom repeated over and over again when I was a kid that comes to mind when I need to decide how/if/when to move forward :"respect yourself, only then others will respect you as well." I hear this since I was 5. And I a now repeat it to my kids.
I agree with Sandycay, sometimes I read what you are saying and you sound like a teenager (no offense, since you look like one as well, its a good thing). But you are not one. You know by now what it is that would make you feel uncomfotable. So stick to that, you know best. I dont see how making someone wait, just to make him wait, when you dont want to wait either, makes you less or more of a slut. K
Sometimes casual sex is nice too. Ask John!!! (LOLOLOL)
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