OH yes, didn't I tell you? THere's a gf. For months there's been a girlfriend. It was only recently confirmed. Right after the papers were signed and he claimed he didn't need to work on our R. Until the papers were signed, he told me we were in MC for a last ditch effort to see if reconsiliation is possible.

THat's why I had my crisis the past couple weeks.

I don't know how serious they are - but ya, that makes so much more sense. But he lied to me for so long. And now the spewing and the distance is back full force.

So now what - you wait it out? YOu let go?

Last edited by Hope4Luv; 04/15/10 06:30 AM.

Me: 42
Him: 43

Two divorcees in a relationship