Need to regroup...

[BobbiJo]

OK once again I say, seriously???

I was shutting down my computer and I had a few windows open, went to close them and one was my Match account. There is an IM window open...I look to see who and it is Puke Boy!

[For those not following then, I went on my first of three Match dates back in November, this guy and I had texted for 3 weeks, then met in person. I was not too impressed but he was good 'on paper' so I thought I would kiss him cause maybe he was a good kisser, and it had been 18 months!! Yeah, I got in my car to go home and had to pull over to puke. NOT a good kisser....]

So Puke Boy/Vomit Guy wants to know 'how I'm doing'....yeah...I have your phone number, if I wanted to check in with you I would have done it 5 months ago buddy!

[Virtually_Handsome]

Perfect ending to a perfect day! NOT!

HUGS!

[Buffet]

Hey BBJ hang in there. No great advice from me as I am still quite a few steps behind you, guys sounds like Garmin would not help him maybe he is a TomTom guy?!

[smith18]

Patience Bobbi Jo. There is no hurry. Pull away some - if it does not draw him towards you, then he is most likely not the one for you.

Have you ever browsed through the book "Venus and Mars on a Date"?

[Kalni]

Sorry about the non date sis... Patience is again important ( )

Regarding the slut thing... LOL!!!
I am a person guided by my emotions and impulses, always being responsible though. It's a fine balance but I think I've done well in my life. I have very few regrets and about things I couldnt have changed anyway. Most importantly, I dont have any regrets about things I didnt do. There is/was one phrase my mom repeated over and over again when I was a kid that comes to mind when I need to decide how/if/when to move forward :"respect yourself, only then others will respect you as well." I hear this since I was 5. And I a now repeat it to my kids.

I agree with Sandycay, sometimes I read what you are saying and you sound like a teenager (no offense, since you look like one as well, its a good thing). But you are not one. You know by now what it is that would make you feel uncomfotable. So stick to that, you know best. I dont see how making someone wait, just to make him wait, when you dont want to wait either, makes you less or more of a slut.
K

Sometimes casual sex is nice too. Ask John!!! (LOLOLOL)

[mindfull]

BBJ -

Good Lord is R a dumbas$!

My God, is he deaf dumb and BLIND!?!?!?!!

Cut him way OFF, go back to the "friendly" co-worker on the Speech/Debate team, and stop feeding his flirtations. ICK

You are way too YOU to start out like that.

Let me tell you what you want, without being too intrusive:

-- You want to be DESIRED, from minute one.
-- You want to be PURSUED, even if pursuing in tandem.
-- You want to be ADORED, for all of your awesomeness.

You should always feel like he's dying to see you naked.

OK, so, do I need to get involved in finding you a date?

I met a nice single dad at S13's soccer game tonight. He and I would never work since he whined, saying my S13 is a MANHANDLER on the field, and plays dirty, BUT it might be kind of hot to see him circle you non-stop... He had a great as$. LOL

Sorry for the early morning rant.

[BobbiJo]

BBJ -

Good Lord is R a dumbas$! Yep

You are way too YOU to start out like that. Definitely!


Let me tell you what you want, without being too intrusive:

-- You want to be DESIRED, from minute one.
-- You want to be PURSUED, even if pursuing in tandem.
-- You want to be ADORED, for all of your awesomeness.
Yes, Yes, and Yes....


You should always feel like he's dying to see you naked.

Ummm....without TMI...he texted me the other night during our convo that he was spending TOO MUCH time thinking about me naked already... (Which is funny since he has never seen me less than 100% clothed!)

OK, so, do I need to get involved in finding you a date?

Sure, when I come visit we can go shopping for hot outfits and then you can hook me up!

So a lovely evening (!) ended and another lovely morning began!
Dan started texting at 6:45...

Allergy Shots

Yep that's all it said. Translation? Nathan has allergy shots on Thursdays and he has to be in Papillion (Omaha suburb 35 min from here) by 4:15. It is still "Dan time" with the kids until Sunday and I have a track meet tonight if we don't get rained out--I am oddly psyched at the idea of standing in the rain for four hours!?

Anyway my rescue mode kicked in bc I was sound asleep when he texted--I get to sleep in when kids are gone bc I live 2 blocks from my school. So I replied that I could take Nathan and leave Sydney at daycare, then Dan could pick Nate up from me at the track meet.

After I hit send I realized my error. So I texted again, "Just ask your dad to help." BC his dad is a retired farmer with time on his hands and he could totally handle it...

So I get no reply to either idea. But he calls ten minutes later bitching about Sydney's shoes. That I need to bring different shoes to school for her bc the ones she has on are ugly and worn out and don't fit right. I was calm and said I let her pick her own shoes just like I let her pick her own clothes. He went into a tizzy about how they would jack up her feet (seriously they are mary janes with a velcro strap, just old and shabby from wear!) So I said I would be happy to bring some tennis shoes to school...he did not appreciate my upbeat tone...

[mindfull]

Sure, when I come visit we can go shopping for hot outfits and then you can hook me up!

AND, we'll go drop keys around town! LMAO

[Babygirl]

LOL good girl!! Uh I think sleep texting is about as bad as drunk texting....dont do it!! Hehehe! Seriously, can he not parent without you at all?? Wow, I think I am glad B doesnt take my kids......he cant even dress himself...oh we have a chance of rain here today too!!!!!!

[BobbiJo]

So anyway ten minutes later I get ANOTHER text from him "FYI Sydney having meltdown at Kids Place (daycare)".....

Yeah, why is that something for me to be involved in? If I told him every time she had a meltdown with me....yeah, but I don't...


Then he texted again a few minutes later "Call me so we can discuss allergy shots"

I called 10 minutes after that and he is in pissed off mode no doubt bc of Sydney and her shoes and her meltdown...

He starts in very alpha male boss-like "What are the options for these shots where and when can he get them"

So I start telling him about Papillion---"I already KNOW about Papillion! I need to know the other places"

Me (in chipper charlie voice) "Oh, you said what are the options so I was answering your question"

"Well tell me about the ones I don't know....and I am going to call them and make them send his stuff down to our family doctor here in town. I can't be driving back and forth every thursday I have Nathan just to get his shots done"

Me "Hmmm well they did want him to stay at the allergy office for the first year to guard against any reactions but I suppose it has been a year. Just look them up on the website and you can call and get all the information you need from the doctor"

Him "Fine"

Me "You're welcome" (in happy cheerleader mode_

Wow he is a crabby @ss..................