Wow, I completely agree with both gatsby's and babydoll's advice- the email looks good but wait a week.

youcould say "I agree that he needs a father. We will see if WH can step up to be the father the baby needs but at this time he is not." NO DON'T SAY THAT! but it felt good to write it.

Piano- don't feel pressured to respond to them. YOUR life. YOUR baby. Not anyone else's business!!!!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004