he has his stuff together. he is doing well in the dating dept. although he has had impotency problems because he is still very attracted to his wife. I mentioned just going to casual dating, keep sex out of it for the time being, make a rational decision about your marriage and take it from there. I also thought retro would be good for them if they decide to see if they could make it work. he lists trust as his main reason for not wanting it work on the marriage right now
