FM- just want to ditto using the IC for the coparenting plan.

As for asking your H where he is at--that is like going through a cheeseless tunnel or talking to a wall--based on what we read here!

And yes, it takes several counselors to get the right one sometimes. It is exhausting rehashing stuff every time but so worth it when you are relying on this person to help you figure out how to deal with your life!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004