Gee it's nice to see you. It's been FOREVER! I will tell you that I just read you very last post, and ...
"He sent me a text today asking if I believed life had a plan? Did I believe that everything happens for a reason? I answered back (probably shouldn't have) that I believe there are reasons why certain things happen, but I do not believe that life ever follows a plan. I asked why, and he responded that he was just wondering. That this is the kind of stuff that goes through his mind everyday. He wonders if any good will ever come out of this D. For me or for him. I did not respond to that."
I actually giggled at this. He wants your help. I'm almost afraid to say this, but he sounds like a confused little boy. There's an old saying (you've probably heard it): "If you can't enjoy the journey, at least enjoy the ride." And, in the case above, I think you should have fun with him, not necessarily make fun of him, but play with him a little. That'll confuse the sh-- out of him. :):):):):)
