still separated, in limbo, still hopeful

[newmama]

Update - busy doing GAL things! yesterday took S to a fun tumbling place and we visited my g-ma.

Today I finished trimming the branches, did some weeding and WH was very surprised. I also took my car in for an oil change. He gave me directions (I USED TO DO THIS ALL THE TIME YOU IDIOT!!) but did warn me they would try to sell me stuff I don't need. He said he was going to take my car in!
Said I needed to change my manual transmission fluid. So that was nice of him I guess. He also changed my cabin filter and checked my air filter for me.

The funny thing was that it was expensive so I should have let him take it in so he would pay for it! lol

I also had him take S to swim class (alone for the 2nd time!!!). I wonder if anyone will ask "where's your wife?" and how he would respond haha!

Today I took a leisurely time getting ready and made this greek bruschetta for dinner- it is like regular tomato basil bruschetta but has cucumber!

I also bought a couple of new shirts-one is casual but shows cleavage and the other is a little fancier and can show cleavage (if you pull it down haha!) So I will be wearing that one tomorrow night when I go out to a single/divorced parents meet up.

Today WH was chatty and nice so I am suspicious. He did bring up daycare and asked if we needed to register. So I will call them.He said he was looking at some other daycares set up through YMCA. I stayed casual and relaxed but he is good at reading "micro-expressions" so I am sure he saw it bothered me.

Oh yeah and started watching a movie while working out today- it was called "Extract" and the premise is the owner of an almond extract business has been sexually neglected for the last few months. A gorgeous con artist starts working there. His buddy comes up with the idea of getting the guy's wife to cheat on him so that he can cheat on his wife with the gorgeous girl- it would be even in that way. It really is funny despite the infidelity theme- I haven't finished it yet but was not offended in the least!

I was probably in the same space as him for like a total of 30 minutes all day- and he was here for 7.5 hours!

I did notice that he was next to me a few times without moving away. And I wore a revealing half tank to work out in- he couldn't avoid looking haha!

So am trying to figure out if I want to go out with this new guy.