Thanks your a good friend. A long time ago before the IDLY bomb, my W said that same quote with her own twist. She said when mom's not happy no one else in the house is happy.
You remember when I said it doesn't bother me to be a grandad. Well, it does a litte. I'm afraid of turning into my W's family. My MIL didn't spend time with our D until she was much older. She didn't volunteer to change any diapers or to feed her.