mrbt, I am at a loss for words. Or almost at a loss. I'm so sorry for you and for W. These are terribly difficult issues, and it's no wonder the therapy has dredged up so much within her.
You are an excellent H to her, and your loyalty speaks volumes of your character.
If cooking breakfast seemed like the right thing to do, then it was. I understand why you did it, and I support your choice.
