About sleeping in the same bed as my W, she has NOT told me she DID NOT want me to but sometimes it seems like she avoids doing so by sleeping on the couch or other bed. In the past week we have slept in the same bed once. Tonight could have been the second opportunity but I decided to just sleep in the spare room and when she gets off the couch she will have the whole bed to herself.

Our work nights overlap sometimes so there are only 2-3 times a week where are even at home at night to sleep in the same bed as each other. My question is....do I give it a try and see if comes in the bed while I am there or leaves it when I join?


M: 27, W: 25
Together since: 01/31/00
M: 10/4/09 (8 Months)
ILBNILWY: 01/24/10
EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted).
Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10
Retrouvaille: 09/10/10