You are fast approaching two years of trying it "the hanging in there method"..
How is that method working for you?
I can give you your answer.. It is NOT working..
Why not try a different method?
Why not tell her you WANT her out asap? Why not YOU be the one to tell HER it is also YOUR decision now? She is leaving anyway. Your way hasn't woked a bit. All it has done is give you two years of torture. Are you the kind of man that beats his head against a wall and keeps on doing it and then goes to the Dr and tells him you have headaches and asks him what he can do and what you should do?
Let's pretend I am that Dr.
Your answer.. STOP beating your head against the wall. Your headaches will go away.
