You gotta be real careful friending them, because if they are in their unassuming mode and your looking for love, even subconsciously - they will drag off your emotions.
If your going to do Gucci's strategy, they have to be completely "let go" in your mind and soul. You may have to be able to see them with the opposite sex and accept it, no pain, no negative emotions.
Most of us on this DB forum still have the emotions for that person so it will be tough.
