Thanks....after a couple years of paddling the canoe by myself and going in circles, I jumped out and swam to shore. Now he appears to just be drifting without a paddle!
My C appointment this afternoon went well. She thinks I am growing immensely and finds it highly predictable that exH is texting, emailing etc more frequently now. She said he wants to try and make sure I am still 'there' and 'available'...not that he wants me back but he doesn't want me 'gone' if that makes sense...
And yep I am moving on. But apparently R cannot handle my awesomeness in person....am I really that intimidating? Must be the Sue Sylvester in me...