*phew* I saw the angry face on Jeff's thread and I thought I'd said something bad...so I followed you to here and now it ALL makes sense.
I'm going to have to agree with Jeff - sometimes men just need a more detailed map, they're rubbish at nuances (not to tar all with the same brush of course)
I had a similar experience - turned out he was actually not as available as he'd made out so I guess I was lucky that we never did go out again.
Hope he gets back to you about meeting up...if not, he's entitled to a generous lashing of frost!